Guys, thanks for all the input. I'm going to find out what the dealer will give me for the V5, and then make a decision about a new car.
I've got a mate who works for an Audi dealer (he got me an amazing deal on my A3), he is going to look into a deal on an A3 or A4.
I have been to look at Leons, and found that in the interior they have use a very similar plastic to the MkV Golf (cheap and nasty). The dash is the same shape as my A3, but the dials as awful (Max Power special), and the MFA is about 2 generations behing the Golf.
I spoke to a mate at a Ford dealer, he told me not to get a Focus as it would seem cheap and nasty compared to the Golf. The only plus point for the Focus is the handling.
The new A3 is 3 door only, so that rules that out (nipper is getting much bigger, so rear doors are a must).
At the moment, other than A4's, a 130pd Sport Passat or a 150pd Golf seem like the best bet. The 150pd Cupra is over priced (it looks good on the out side but on the interior it is an budget car).
I want to buy a new house this year, so I am going to go for an economical car, that pretty much rules out sporty petrol cars. I hate to say it, but it looks like I will end up with 2 diesels.
I'm not sure what to do, so I'm not going to rush into any decision.